change should happen within the family

As I was lying down in my bed listening to some random music and chilling , a sudden thought passed through my mind about the dressings of girls and how society reacts to it . Talking from my personal experience I would say that people dress according to their comfortability and yes ofcourse to look good and confident in public. The dress may vary in size and colour and modal etc. it can be crop tops or it can be sleeveless or maybe might be a little deep necked dress but as long as one is secure and comfortable in wearing those then there is no one who has the right to question that .

During the sem break while i was at my home , one day I decided to go out to meet my school friends . I had decided to wear a crop top and was about to leave home when my dad called from behind and said ' if you're going out , you can't wear that , it's revealing' and I said that this is just a crop top which everyone in today's world wear it and it has become very normal nowadays. Then my dad said a dilouge that hit me very hard . He said ' what if people around sees me and they starts to gossip and question about how mom and dad have raised me,what would they say that my dad and mom allows their daughter to walk like this . 
I said to him this is what u have to change first . There's no point in blaming the society were even the parents cant change this attitude towards dressing. Change should first happen in one's homes and gradually the whole society will accept everything gradually.
I told him one more thing before leaving home . I said I'm not going to change this dress because I don't want to prove anything to the people around and also if anyone comes up asking anything about my dressing please do tell them to say it directly to my face and I'll handle them and will give them what they want . If u trust your daughter no matter what people say u can shut their mouths . 

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